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How to Make Money by Linking To Articles on ConfidentMan.net
I get a lot of feedback from men (and women sometimes) saying that they really appreciate the helpful free articles on ConfidentMan.net. By linking to these articles from your own blog or website you can help share them with other men; and here's another incentive for linking to the site: you can earn money in the form of affiliate commissions whenever a visitor you refer buys a copy of the Confident Man ebook.
So here's how to create links to these articles that can earn you money:
Firstly, you need an account with ClickBank. It's free to sign … Continue reading…
How to Feel Confident in Conversations
The way we speak in conversation with other people says a lot about how confident we feel, yet we're often unaware of the subtle nuances of the way we're communicating and the resulting message we're sending about our self-image to other people. Simply changing the way we converse can boost our general level of confidence. When we hear ourselves communicating more effectively it reminds us of our innate power and inner confidence. And when others experience us as a powerful communicator, we connect better, gain greater trust and respect, and become the sort of person other people want to be … Continue reading…
Why You Shouldn’t Call Her
A laundry list of guidelines exists regarding the top time to call. Could it be possible that ‘never’ is the correct answer?
We’ve all heard the litany of ‘rules’ that exist surrounding when the optimal time is to call a woman after you first meeting. Some swear that 48 hours is ideal where others won’t dream of calling before an entire week has elapsed. What if I were to tell you there is no perfect time to place that call? What if your best course of action wasn’t to call – at all?
“A true alpha male picks up the … Continue reading…
10 Steps To Instant Confidence
You've probably come across plenty of fancy websites with slick videos offering you instant confidence in return for some of your hard earned cash. Skeptical? Don't be! Just because you've struggled with self-esteem all your life is no reason to doubt those online testimonials claiming overnight success. Why shouldn't you be able to undo years of negative programming in an instant?
Don't waste time and energy delving into negative beliefs, exploring your emotions in therapy, expanding your comfort zone, learning social skills or doing dicky things like public speaking, when you can have 100% Instant Confidence just by following … Continue reading…
How to Recover from a Critical Parent
Having one or more critical parents can put a sledgehammer through your childhood confidence and leave effects lasting long into adulthood. If your father or mother responded with criticism and judgment instead of joy and delight when you did what came naturally, you may have felt as if there was something wrong with you and internalized their critical voice inside your head. You learned to hold back and now every time you step out of line or go to express yourself naturally, you rebuke yourself first instead. This will seriously undermine your self-confidence and your relationships with other people... especially … Continue reading…
Posted in Self Esteem Tagged childhood, critical father, critical mother, critical parent, recovery Leave a comment
The Simple Secret to Self-Esteem
Most of my life I've struggled with finding self-esteem and although my life is still a work-in-progress, I believe I've finally discovered the simple secret to self-esteem. I could write a book on it, but I think the shorter the book the more powerful it would be and I can cover the whole deal in one short article. As a bonus, I'm even going to throw in the cure for loneliness. So here goes:
Self-esteem is really about self-acceptance. This needs to come from within us, because when our self-acceptance is based on external reinforcement we are always at the … Continue reading…
The Most Important 20 Minutes Of Your Life
If you want better relationships, deeper connection with other people, greater confidence, a sense of true self-worth and more happiness, joy and peace in your life: this talk by Brene Brown on The Power of Vulnerability says it better than I ever could. This could be the most important 20 minutes of your life:
How To Make A Woman Orgasm
This talk by Nicole Daedone pretty much explains it all:
Here's my summary:
- Take it slow
- Make her feel comfortable, so she can relax
- Focus on pleasuring her
- Communicate so that you connect with her; this is key
- Gently stroke around her clitoris
Pretty simple really...
Secrets of Body Language Revealed
If you want to communicate confidently, you need to understand body language. A person's body posture, movements, facial expressions and tone of voice reveal much more about their true thoughts, feelings and emotions than just their words do. This is especially true when there is some incongruence between what they say, and the way they say it; if the two don't match, go with the body language every time.
You'll feel more confident in your interactions with other people when you understand how to read and show body language cues more clearly. I've just come across a great video on … Continue reading…
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So You Think You've Got Challenges?
We all have challenges sometimes; challenges that are real and can seem overwhelming.
But a little perspective can go a long way. If you think you've got challenges and would like a little inspiration, check out this guy:
Check out Nick's book: Life Without Limits: Inspiration fo a Ridiculously Good Life
Posted in Masculinity Tagged gratitude, inspiration, nick vujicic, overcoming challenges, patience 5 Comments
