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Confidence with Women
Fear of missing out with women:
Subject: Are you afraid of missing out with women? Hey dude, I have some tough questions for you, but I think you're up to the task. So let's be straight with each other: How's your relationship going? How's it really going? Are you in a relationship with the girl of your dreams? Married? Engaged? Dating? Are you still single after all these years? Or worse, have you settled for a relationship with a woman who deep down, you know really isn't the girl of your dreams simply because you're afraid of missing out with women? This is so painful for many guys to face that they settle for what they think they can get in a woman, instead of going after what they really want. And the problem with settling is that deep down, you'll know that you deserved better. Eventually she'll sense it too. Either you'll live out the rest of your life in denial and unhappiness, or you'll end up breaking up. It never goes well in the end. All because you were afraid of missing out. But there's a valuable message in that fear for you. It's telling you that you're missing a key ingredient that every man needs in order to be successful with the women of his dreams. No doubt you've heard it before, and it may be painful to acknowledge that what you're missing is: Confidence. Pure and simple. Attractive women are attracted to confidence in a man. If you have it, they come your way. If not, they leave you feeling frustrated and alone. If you're afraid of missing out on the girl of your dreams, it simply means that you haven't yet built the confidence you need to know deep down that she's coming your way in life real soon now. Some guys blame women for their own failure to find the girl of their dreams. They use every excuse in the book to avoid taking responsibility for their own lack of inner self-confidence. Then they wonder why women don't find them attractive. Don't be one of them. You can build the true inner confidence that will attract the right woman for you, and end up with the girl of your dreams. All you need is a little guidance to help you get in touch with your true inner self. And that's exactly what the Confident Man Program gives you: a fun, step-by-step guide to building the self-confidence you need to find the woman of your dreams. So why waste any more time living in fear of missing out, when you can start living with confidence instead? Grab it now by clicking here: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Failure around women:
Subject: Do you feel like a failure around women? Hey Dude, I know this can be a painful question, especially when you're going through a woman-drought, but we need to ask ourselves tough questions sometimes if we want to be successful: How do you feel around women? Do you feel like a failure? Not good enough? Inadequate? Afraid? Perhaps you've become jaded and given up. Well I'm here to tell you that there's hope; even for a guy like you. Because I used to be you: feeling like a failure around women. And then I discovered the secret ingredient a man needs in order to be successful around women. When Sean Connery was asked what it was that made him so successful around women, he said: "It's Confidence, Confidence, Confidence". The real question is though: how do you get it? You build real inner confidence by addressing four areas of your life: 1. The way you think (your mindset) 2. The way you handle your feelings (emotional mastery) 3. The way you relate to women (attraction & relationship skills) 4. Your general life skills and life experience This is exactly what the Confident Man Program does: it's a step-by- step guide to handling all these four key areas of life. By following the program you'll learn: - Where your limiting beliefs about yourself came from - How to fix them permanently - How to dissolve the anxiety that you feel around women - How to relate to women powerfully - Skills that will turn you from a Chump into a Chick Magnet This isn't about faking it until you make it or learning cheesy pickup lines; it's about getting in touch with the unique, authentic man inside you who you've been suppressing up until now. So if you'd like to turn your failures with women into successes, grab the Confident Man Program here: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Frustration with women:
Subject: Do you feel frustrated with women? Hey there, I have a question for you that could change your life: Do you feel frustrated with women? Or to go deeper: Do you wonder why the girls you like don't seem to like you? Do you feel hopeless when it comes to finding “the one” for you? Do you find yourself feeling angry with women and not knowing why? Do you get upset when you encounter rejection after rejection from women? Have you given up when it comes to women, dating, sex and relationships? Ok, that's enough... I know these can be painful questions. So I want to let you in on a secret that enlightened people have known for centuries which will help you dissolve your frustration with women: Women are a mirror to a man's subconscious. (In fact, everyone and everything in the world is a mirror to your subconscious. But since we're talking about women here, let's just focus on them for the time being.) Part of the problem we have in dealing with the subconscious is that's where our emotions arise, and in our society most guys have never learned the key skill of emotional mastery. So let's talk about emotions for a moment. Frustration is a mixture of anger and sadness. It's a normal response to not getting our needs met. If you're experiencing frustration with women, it means that some emotion in your subconscious is stopping you getting your needs met around women. If you direct your frustration with women outwards, you may act aggressively and end up hurting them which will lead to feelings of guilt. If you direct your frustration inwards, you may end up depressed and wondering why women avoid you. Either way, you end up with low self-esteem and stuck in a vicious cycle. Underneath the frustration will be a feeling of powerlessness. We live in a culture that teaches us to avoid unpleasant feelings, and there are lots of ways to avoid feeling powerless: we can blame women, we can take drugs and alcohol, we can deny the problem exists, we can put on an act of bravado, we can act like a jerk or we can become overly self-reliant. Of course none of these work in the long run. Ultimately, we need to face the painful underlying issues behind it. Ironically, the first step to overcoming frustration is to accept that we are powerless. If you've done any Twelve-Step work, you'll recognise this as Step 1. It may seem a paradox, but once we admit that we are powerless, we're able to reach out to others for the help that we need to step into our own power. The truth is that you simply can't become a powerful man on your own. You need help from other men. It took me a long time to learn to admit to myself that I was powerless. One of the ways it showed up in my life was denying that I needed help, support and guidance from other men who had once been where I was. I would see products like the Confident Man Program which promised me freedom from the frustration that I felt around women; but I wouldn't buy them. I preferred to “work it out myself” thinking that self-reliance would make me more confident than following someone else's advice. Avoiding taking action to get this advice was just another way that my underlying sense of powerlessness kept me frustrated; even though the answers I needed were available right in front of me. This meant learning everything from scratch all the time. It took forever. Eventually I worked out that I could end my suffering much sooner by getting advice from good mentors, including books and programs like Confident Man. Once we recognise our true nature and get in touch with our inner power, we no longer feel powerless. Instead, we have feelings of inner confidence. Frustration with women then dissolves. The Confident Man Program will put you in touch with your power as a man. If you'd like to end the frustration that you feel towards women and learn how to overcome your feelings of powerlessness around them, click here to get the Confident Man Program: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Fear of beautiful women:
Subject: Are You Afraid Of Talking To Beautiful Women? Hi Dude, Do you suffer from approach anxiety, not knowing what to say, feeling like you're never good enough, putting women an a pedestal, trying to get beautiful women to like you, or just plain being overwhelmed with fear around hot women? There are a lot of books on talking to women out there, and most of them don't ever deal with the core problem a lot of men I know face when it comes to talking to beautiful women. The problem that leaves you feeling powerless around them. Something you learned early on in life and are probably still hanging onto because subconsciously you believe your very survival is at stake. The question to ask yourself if you feel fearful talking to beautiful women is: How do you feel around your mother? You need to answer this question honestly, and since you may be ashamed of the answer I'm not going to ask you to share it with anyone; but you do need to be honest with yourself about it. Many guys I know who struggle with anxiety when talking to beautiful women also find it difficult to really “be themselves” around their own mothers. Often they had an overly critical or controlling mother, and the hard truth is that they are still emotionally enmeshed in an adult/child relationship with her. Even if she's not alive any more. So why does this make you anxious around hot women? Well, there was a time in your life when your survival depended upon your mother. She had complete power over you and could control everything from what you ate and where you went, to what you did and who you spent your time with. As a baby you couldn't even feed yourself, so if she abandoned you, you would die. And you knew it. Like it or not, your mother had total power over you. Now that you're an adult, beautiful women have the power. In a society like ours where appearance gives women high social status, beautiful women have a lot of sexual power. If you're still enmeshed with your mother, your subconscious will project onto these women all the repressed fear, anxiety and anger that you may still be holding towards your controlling mother. That's why you freak out when you go to talk to them. Repressed emotions get triggered subconsciously whenever you go to talk to a powerfully beautiful woman. It's not your fault; it's just the way emotions in your brain work. You got wounded in your relationship with the first powerful woman in your life when you were a child, and now that wound is getting triggered by every hot woman you meet as an adult. So how do you get over this fear? You need to heal the wound and claim your power back by breaking the childish emotional connection that you have with your critical mother. Otherwise, anxiety will keep going off each time you encounter a beautiful woman. Stop giving your power away and quit seeking validation from attractive women. Take them off the pedestal and realise that they're no better than you. In fact, they have many of the same anxieties and struggles as you have; often more so. Most importantly, realise that they are not your mother and you don't need their approval. The process of severing the adult/child emotional connection between you and your mother is one of the most important stages in a man's development. Without doing this you'll subconsciously treat other women as your mother, constantly seeking from them the approval that you didn't get from her. This makes you a very unattractive proposition to high-status women, and will undermine any relationship that you do happen to get into with a woman. Get this right though, and the anxiety you feel around hot women will literally be a thing of the past. I call the process of switching the relationship with your mother (and other women) from adult/child to adult/adult "forgiveness". This will make total sense to you when you learn how to do this by reading Step 8: Forgive Your Mother in The Confident Man Program Guide, available at: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Confidence in Life
Failure generally:
Subject: Do you feel like a failure? Hey there, I have some tough questions for you: Do you feel like a failure in life? Have you failed to achieve what you wanted to achieve so far? Ever feel like life is passing you by and you don't know what to do? I know this can be painful to admit, but if this sounds like you, there's a key ingredient that you're missing: Confidence! What do I mean by Confidence? I'm talking about a deep felt sense of inner trust in yourself. Knowing who you really are, what's important to you in life, how to go about getting it, and having the self-belief necessary to overcome any obstacles that get in your way. A lack of confidence can show up in a lot of ways: - Feeling like a failure generally - Being stuck in a dead-end job - Not having dreams and visions of your own - Not revealing your dreams to other people, or even to yourself - Fear of failure I could go on and on, but if this message resonates with you, you already know what I'm talking about. If you want to overcome the sense of failure that you currently feel, before you start spiralling down into full-blown depression, you need to take action. The only person who can turn this situation around is you. "But what action should I take?", you ask, "I don't know where to start!" If only there was a step-by-step guide out there written by someone who has travelled this road already. Fortunately there is: it's called The Confident Man Program. It will teach you how to unravel the core issues that have kept you stuck in your life so that you can throw away your old feelings of failure and start really living the life you were meant to live. And along the way you'll have a lot of fun! So here's the choice: Stay stuck feeling like a failure... Or take action today to change your life by starting The Confident Man Program. I can't do it for you. You need to start acting decisively, and this is your first challenge; Will you rise to it? Or will you stay stuck in the pattern of failure? To kick-start your future success today, grab the program from: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Frustration with life:
Subject: Are you frustrated with your life? Hey there, I have a question for you that could change your life: Do you feel frustrated with your life? Or to go deeper: Are you stuck in a dead-end job? Uncertain what you really want to do? Do you find yourself feeling angry and not knowing why? Do you wonder why the girls you like don't seem to like you? Have you given up when it comes to women, dating, sex and relationships? OK, that's enough... I know these can be painful questions. So I want to let you in on a secret that enlightened people have known for centuries which will help you dissolve your frustration: The world is a mirror to a man's subconscious. Everything you experience in your life is a reflection of what's going on deep down in your own mind. It may seem a little woo-woo at first, but once you learn to recognise this you'll see how true it is. Part of the problem we have in dealing with the subconscious is that's where our emotions arise, and in our society most guys have never learned the key skill of emotional mastery. So let's talk about some of the more troubling emotions for a moment: Frustration is a mixture of anger and sadness. It's a normal response to not getting our needs met. If you're experiencing frustration with your life, it means that something is stopping you getting your needs met. And that something always boils down to an emotion in your subconscious. If you direct your frustration outwards, you may act aggressively towards other people and end up hurting them; which will lead to feelings of guilt. If you direct your frustration inwards, you may end up depressed and wondering why other people avoid you. Either way, you end up with low self-esteem and stuck in a vicious cycle. Underneath the frustration will be a feeling of powerlessness. We live in a culture that teaches us to avoid unpleasant feelings, and there are lots of ways to avoid feeling powerless: we can blame others, we can take drugs and alcohol, we can deny the problem exists, we can put on an act of bravado, we can act like a jerk or we can become overly self-reliant. Anything that will help us avoid facing the painful underlying issues behind it. Ironically, the first step to overcoming frustration is to accept that we are powerless. If you've done any Twelve-Step work, you'll recognise this as Step 1. It may seem a paradox, but once we admit that we are powerless, we're able to reach out to others for the help that we need to step into our own power. The truth is that you simply can't become a powerful man on your own. You need help from other men. It took me a long time to learn to admit to myself that I was powerless. One of the ways it showed up in my life was denying that I needed help, support and guidance from other men who had once been where I was. I would see products like the Confident Man Program which promised me freedom from the frustration that I felt; but I wouldn't buy them. I preferred to "work it out myself" thinking that self- reliance would make me more confident than following someone else's advice. Avoiding taking action to get this advice was just another way that my underlying sense of powerlessness kept me frustrated; even though the answers I needed were available right in front of me. This meant learning everything from scratch all the time. It took forever. Eventually I worked out that I could end my suffering much sooner by getting advice from good mentors, including books and programs like Confident Man. Once we recognise our true nature and get in touch with our inner power, we no longer feel powerless. Instead, we have feelings of inner confidence. Frustration then dissolves as we start getting our needs met more and more often. The Confident Man Program will put you in touch with your power as a man. If you'd like to end the frustration that you feel in life and learn how to overcome your feelings of powerlessness, click here to get the Confident Man Program: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Fear of “missing out”:
Subject: Are you afraid of missing out in life? Hey dude, I have some tough questions for you, but I think you're up to the task. So let's be straight with each other: How's your life going? How's it really going? Are you in a relationship with the girl of your dreams? Married? Engaged? Dating? Do you have a kick-ass job that you absolutely love? Is the money flowing your way? Do you have hobbies that you're passionate about? Are you surrounded by supportive friends who are living the lives of their dreams too? Or are you still single after all these years? Stuck in a dead-end job? Surrounded by losers? Lacking passion for anything? I know it may be a painful topic but also ask yourself this: Are you afraid of missing out on what you really want in your life? This question is so painful for many guys that they settle for what they think they can get in life, instead of going after what they really want. And the problem with settling is that deep down, you'll know that you deserved better. The people you settle with will sense it too. Either you'll live out the rest of your life in denial and unhappiness, or you'll end up having a mid-life crisis or mental breakdown. It never goes well in the end. All because you were afraid of missing out. If you're afraid of missing out, there's a valuable message in that fear for you. It's telling you that you're missing a key ingredient that every man needs in order to be successful in life: Confidence. Pure and simple. Success in life is attracted to confidence in a man. If you have it, success comes your way. If not, it will pass you by no matter how hard you work. If you're afraid of missing out on the life of your dreams, or you just don't even know what that life would look like, it simply means that you haven't yet built the confidence you need to know deep down that it's coming your way real soon now. A lot of guys blame other people for their own fears and failures. They use every excuse in the book to avoid taking responsibility for their own lack of inner self-confidence. Then they wonder why their life isn't working, and women don't find them attractive. Don't be one of those guys. It doesn't help, and it's not necessary because there is hope. You can build the true inner confidence that will attract the life of your dreams. All you need is a little guidance to help you get in touch with your true inner self. And that's exactly what the Confident Man Program gives you: a fun, step-by-step guide to building the self-confidence you need to live the life of your dreams. So why waste any more time living in fear, when you can start living with confidence instead? Grab it now by clicking here: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
Depression:
Subject: Are you suffering from depression? Hey dude, I want to talk about an issue most men don't talk to other men about. Most of us are too ashamed to talk about it, let alone seek any help for it. Yet it affects a staggering number of us guys. So I'll cut to the chase: I'm talking about depression. Maybe you've sought help and been diagnosed by a professional, or perhaps you just know deep down that you're unhappy and something is wrong with your life but you're not sure what. Perhaps you feel hopeless for no good reason, or you just can't get motivated, or the light has simply gone out of your life. It's a painful place to be. Psychiatrists will tell you that depression is a "chemical imbalance in the brain", and they're right. But that's only half the story. The obvious question to ask is: what causes the chemical imbalance? Psychologists argue about nature versus nurture; and they'll probably keep arguing forever. Here are two simple answers: 1. Not getting your needs met. 2. Suppressing your emotions. If you have either or both of these going on for an extended period, it starts to affect your brain chemistry on a physical level. This is just your brain's way of alerting you so you can deal with the underlying problem. That's why it's painful. Like physical pain, mental pain stops you in your tracks in order to get your attention. Many of us in western society resort to medication nowadays to make the pain go away. If that's the route you choose, that's fine. But be aware that there's a catch: anti-depressants will numb you and and reduce your motivation to deal with the issues that are stopping your getting your needs met. They'll also suppress your emotions. Well isn't that interesting? That's exactly what caused the problem in the first place! So here's a question for you: Do you really think you'd be depressed if you were living the life of your dreams? Probably not! I have another way of looking at depression that's equally valid to the one your psychiatrist will tell you: You don't know who you are... yet. This may sound rather zen when you first hear it, but once you start the journey of discovering your true self, it makes total sense. You're depressed because you're missing something. A key ingredient of self-awareness. And if I was to summarise that ingredient in one word, it would be: Confidence. I'm not talking fake-it-till-you-make-it here. Chances are you've already tried that. I'm talking deep, inner confidence. When you have it, you know deep down that you have the capacity to get your needs met. You also know how to master your emotions so that they guide you in life, instead of controlling and inhibiting you. This is not a journey for the faint-hearted. It means taking full responsibility for your life, dealing with some tough issues from the past and learning to live in the present. You probably also have a backlog of unexpressed emotions to release before that chemical imbalance settles down. If you need medication as a stop-gap measure to get you through, by all means take it. And if you're already on medication, definitely do not stop taking it just because you've read this. Start taking action instead. The journey ahead may be challenging, but it's also incredibly fulfilling and tremendously rewarding and you come alive, perhaps for the first time. It can also be great fun. But it would help to have someone to guide you, wouldn't it? Someone who's been there himself. And that's exactly what the Confident Man Program is: A step-by-step guide for dealing with the toughest issues in life so that you can get in touch with your inner confidence. The 250-page program guide covers everything you need to know about your Mindset, Emotional Mastery, Confidence with Women and Life Skill to put depression behind you and live the life of your dreams. Bonus audio downloads and ebooks fill in any blanks to give you the most comprehensive confidence-building program for men out there. If you're depressed, you owe it to yourself to do this program. Life rewards the man who takes action. Taking action consistently towards your goals will defeat depression over time. Start taking action today. Click here to get the Confident Man Program now: https://confidentman.net/confident-man-program/
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