Want to talk to someone about how you can become more confident? Are you in a rut, needing some encouragement? Do you have a specific issue you're stuck on? Have you experienced traumatic or emotionally overwhelming events in the past and can't seem to move on? Or are you unsure what the problem even is, and need some help sorting it out?

If so, you could probably benefit from some personal coaching and therapy with me.

"I wish I'd had that conversation with you twenty years ago Graham"
- Paul, Chatswood Australia

I offer one-on-one coaching via Skype to men (and women) anywhere in the world so you get help tailored to your specific needs. Confidence is a social skill, so your confidence will grow faster when I coach you in person. You get support, understanding and direct feedback on your situation which will enable you to gain confidence and deal with the issues in your life much more quickly than you could on your own. I can help you pinpoint and deal with the troubling emotions that underlie a lack of confidence and low self-esteem because I know from personal experience how helpful this can be.

Life is easier with a coach!

I'll be your sounding board to talk over what's going on for you with no bullshit. Often it takes another person to help us see what's really going on for us. I also use a series of questions to pinpoint exactly where you are stuck and how to move forward by identifying and dealing with the unpleasant emotion that is holding you back. It's difficult to have a clear perspective on our own emotional issues and this is why a coach with an outside perspective can be so helpful. I have many coaches, and have found the process invaluable in my own life, which is why I'm offering it to you.

If you're a man, having support from other men is vital to overcoming the isolation that many of us feel when we lack confidence. Building confidence has been a huge challenge for me, so I understand where you're coming from. You'll get the understanding, support and encouragement you need to help you move forward. You get to be really honest about exactly where you're at, and get specific feedback on what action you can take to improve your life. Wherever you're at, coaching can help you get to the next level faster.

If you're a woman, being able to talk to a man who "gets it" about the difficulties you're having in your relationship with another guy or just in dealing with your own insecurities can make a massive difference. You'll get something from me that you can't get from your girlfriends or from other guys: a genuine empathic male perspective.

"I cannot overstate how much talking to you has helped me.
You've really made such a huge difference by being there for me."

- Susanne, Gerroa Australia

I can also be your empathy buddy and offer you the empathy required to heal the emotional wounds that undermine self-confidence. The process is all about setting your true self free. I work hard on being as authentic and honest as possible in my own life, and would love to help you to do the same.

If this is resonating with you, contact me now to see how I can help you.

I have personal experience with the following challenges:

  • Recovering from a controlling mother

  • Having an emotionally disconnected father

  • Recovering from a religious upbringing

  • Stress, depression, anxiety and panic

  • Problems relating to women, dating and sex

  • Nice-guy Syndrome

  • Lack of direction in life

  • Difficulty expressing emotions and lack of emotional awareness

  • Overcoming nervousness in public speaking

  • Recovering from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and the associated mind-fuck

  • Burnout in Engineering/IT and career transition

You can read more about my story here.

"You've really helped me."
- Peter, Sydney Australia

If I were you, I'd want someone with decent training and experience as my coach. I have the following training and experience in coaching and counseling:

"Talking to you has helped me so much to clarify what I really needed.
I'm very grateful."

- Melissa, New York, US

Communication skills are the key to social confidence. I continue to work hard on developing mine and you can benefit from this experience when you talk to me. Here's some of what I've done so far:

To understand what I actually do with my clients in a session, check this video:

I'm generally available during these times, depending on your location and whether daylight saving is in force:

  • Australia (East Coast): 9 AM – 5 PM

  • Australia (West Coast): 7 AM – 3 PM

  • USA (East Coast): 7 PM – 3 AM

  • USA (West Coast): 4 PM – Midnight

  • England/UK: Midnight - 8 AM

  • Central Europe: 1 AM – 9 AM

Each coaching session via Skype lasts for 1 hour and costs A$130 Australian dollars, paid in advance via PayPal.

If the thought of talking to a stranger (i.e. me) over Skype makes you nervous, this is a great indication that coaching will help you.

"I'm so glad I reached out and contacted you."
- Caroline, Rose Bay, Australia

To line up a time to for your first session, just enter your details below including what is important to you, what you'd like to be even better about your life, your city and Skype address:

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