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How to Meet Women During the Day
One of my goals is to get really confident at meeting women during the day. I'm not a big fan of nightclubs with loud blaring music, and the idea of being able to approach attractive women I see going about their daily routines in a relaxed manner really appeals to me. I figure that once I learn to approach women confidently, I can travel the world and never be wanting for female company.
My friend Jack from SucceedAtDating.com is an expert on meeting women during the day, also known as day game. He coaches other men on how … Continue reading…
Music To Make You Happy When You Feel Sad
When you're feeling sad, listening to positive, encouraging music can help you break out of it.
Here's my favorite music for turning sadness into happiness and optimism:
Chumbawumba: Tubthumping
I get knocked down. But I get up again. No, you're never gonna keep me down. Words to live by.
Paul Colman Trio: Turn
Gotta turn this life around, turn this life around. Catchy jingle about beating hard times, if you can ignore the kitsch religious undertones.
Steve Winwood: While You See A Chance
While you see a chance, take it! Great advice Steve.
En Vogue: Free Your Mind
My Wicked, Wicked Ways by Errol Flynn
“I like to enjoy the thrill of living every day; every hour of the day. For we are only here this once, and let's feel the wind while we may.” - Errol Flynn, My Wicked, Wicked Ways
If there's one theme that shines through from legendary actor and ladies' man Errol Flynn's autobiography My Wicked, Wicked Ways, it's his complete lack of shame in going after what he wanted. He loved the company of beautiful women, and his swashbuckling movie persona ensured that he had more attention from them than he could handle. Yet even before becoming famous, it … Continue reading…
Rejection Isn't About You
Dealing with “rejection” is one of the hardest things for many of us to learn, especially when we lack deep inner confidence. It's taken a long time for me to get a handle on, but I'm definitely getting better at handling rejection these days.
At a recent Love, Intimacy and Sexuality workshop run by The Human Awareness Institute, I found myself dealing with rejection right from the word go. Our very first task was to choose a buddy for the weekend, and I immediately found myself drawn to the most attractive woman in the room.
Problem … Continue reading…
Harry Potter and the Path of Confidence
You might think that the Harry Potter series are just children's books, but there's plenty of adult wisdom in them if you look more closely. Their incredible popularity means that they've obviously struck a chord with millions of children and adults alike. So what can we learn from Harry Potter about the Path of Confidence?
Warning: contains minor spoilers...
You're A Wizard
In Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry learns that he's a wizard. He just didn't realize because he's been brought up as an orphan in a family of muggles (non-wizards). It's a similar situation to many … Continue reading…
How to Resolve an Argument with Your Mother
I just got this question in response to my article on How to Recover From a Controlling Mother, and felt it warranted deeper exploration. Steve asks:
I just got off the phone with my mother who was berating me because I had not responded in a timely fashion to an email, which made her ashamed and disappointed. I went to my computer and looked up "how to deal with a controlling mother". Your article looked interesting so I began to read it, and as I did my eyes opened up as if you were speaking directly to me! I … Continue reading…
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I know I'm not the only guy out there helping men become more confident. If you have a website, blog, product or service that helps men have a better life, here's a free opportunity to get a quality dofollow backlink to your site to bring in more traffic and let the world know what you're up to.
Just leave a comment below letting us all know how your site, product or service helps men along with a link to it. Other readers will be able to find out about you and search engines will see the link you've left … Continue reading…
How to Handle a Woman's Tests
Women put men to the test all the time. Consciously and unconsciously, women are always sussing out what you're made of and whether you have what it takes to protect her in the big wild world. This is important to her because when you really man-up, she gets to relax and play more; which is what she really wants.
Many women throw tests at men without even realizing that they're doing it. I've had a lot of conversations with women lately about this and often they're fascinated by the whole concept. They don't even know that they've been doing it … Continue reading…
How to Develop Your Masculinity
Being a man in today's world can be a challenge. Fortunately there are a lot of resources out there that can help get us in touch with the masculinity at our core and be more confident and effective in the world.
Between fellow course junkie Dunstan Bertschinger and I, we've explored a bunch of books, courses and workshops that have helped us get in touch with our intuition, emotions, and inner magician. Dunstan is a swimming coach who helps his clients gain confidence by developing their relationship with the water. He sees learning to swim as a metaphor for finding … Continue reading…
Claude Monet, Dirty Harry and Romeo on Confidence, Kissing, Dancing and Romance
This month's edition of the Confident Man Carnival brings you the latest advice from across the net on confidence with women, dating and relationships:
Lisa Hood presents 10 Weird But True Facts About Kissing posted at ZenCollegeLife, saying, "Kissing is an integral part of our courting rituals, holiday celebrations, and romantic comedies."
Charles Chua C K presents The Ten Golden Rules of Human Relations posted at All About Living with Life.
Donna Cullen presents 10 Love Lessons from Claude Monet posted at Top Dating Sites, saying, "Claude Monet was one of the forerunners of what would
