100 Ways To Meet Women

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There are women out there all over the place. Why do so many guys have trouble meeting them? After all, there must be at least 100 ways to meet women. Some of them will probably even involve nudity. Let’s see:

Go to a Yoga class
Go backpacking in youth hostels
Do a meditation class
Go to Resolving The Mindset Riddle
Enroll in a Guitar class
Join a 12-step therapy group
Go to Improv classes
Go to comedy festivals
Ask for movie advice in the ticket queue at the cinemas
Participate in a Spencer Tunick photo shoot.
Take acting classes
Go to art installations
Go to Breakthrough To Success
Join an Amnesty International letter writing group
Take life drawing classes
See live theater
Learn to play music
Start your own business and go business networking
Study Psychology
Take a life coach training course
Get into personal development
Become a life model
Go to rock concerts
Volunteer for the political party with the most attractive male candidate
Hang out with your female friends, and meet their friends
Go to bars
Do a Yoga retreat
Go on a naturist holiday tour
Join Greenpeace and start participating
See live music
Go to the beach with friends
Do a road trip to another state
Join a writer’s group
Talk around the water cooler at work
Do volunteer work
Organize your own house party
Do a health retreat
Backpack across Europe, Australia, Asia, Africa or America.
Do volunteer fund-raising
Go to [intlink id=”100″ type=”post”]bars & nightclubs[/intlink]
Travel overseas
Go to a random meetup
Join the Wilderness Society
Join a mixed volleyball team
Take up cycling
Online dating
Study Tantra
Ring an old flame
Study music
Visit art galleries and ask women “Which one is your favorite?”
Join Toastmasters and learn public speaking
Learn to ride a motorbike
Join an amateur theater production
Go to Confest
Become a telephone crisis counselor
Visit a church
Send Twitter messages to random strangers
Join a gym
Learn hypnosis
Study counseling
Study art
Join a bushwalking club
Learn to sing
Become a male stripper
Join a choir
Study sacred sexuality
Phone your existing female friends regularly
Ask for shopping advice at the supermarket
Go to Burning Man
Send Facebook friend requests to friends of your friend.
Do a Contiki tour
Do a meditation retreat
Join a book club
Study hypnotherapy
Go to a sound healing
Hang out in cafes
Start your own blog and write about how you feel
Learn to play drums
Go speed dating
Talk to checkout chicks
Take dance lessons
Go to Carnivale
Approach random women in the street
Become a Sannyassin
Go to Fashion parades
Take an alternative spirituality course
Meet your buddy’s single female friends
Do a stand up comedy course
Do an assertiveness training course
Take sign language classes
Go to open-mic nights and have a go
Go dancing
Do a Tantric Sex workshop
Become a hippy
Join a Samba band
Go to [intlink id=”678″ type=”post”]parties[/intlink]
Do a relationships training course
Get a dog and walk it in the local park
At wedding receptions
[intlink id=”575″ type=”post”]Learn to flirt[/intlink]
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Like I said, at least 100 that work. If you have trouble meeting women you probably lack confidence; lucky for you I elaborate on many of these ideas in Confident Man. It’ll have you meeting more women than you can poke a stick at.

What about you? What do you like to do to meet women?

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Graham Stoney

I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked. I created The Confident Man Program to help other men live the life of their dreams. I also offer 1-on-1 coaching via Skype so if you related to this article contact me about coaching.

2 Comments

Matt · March 11, 2012 at 11:27 am

I hope you don’t mind, Graham, but I’ve emailed this list to a bunch of my friends. I’ve included a link to your site but this list was too comprehensive and full of ideas NOT to share around! 🙂