There are women out there all over the place. Why do so many guys have trouble meeting them? After all, there must be at least 100 ways to meet women. Some of them will probably even involve nudity. Let's see:

  1. Go to a Yoga class

  2. Go backpacking in youth hostels

  3. Do a meditation class

  4. Go to Resolving The Mindset Riddle

  5. Enroll in a Guitar class

  6. Join a 12-step therapy group

  7. Go to Improv classes

  8. Go to comedy festivals

  9. Ask for movie advice in the ticket queue at the cinemas

  10. Participate in a Spencer Tunick photo shoot.

  11. Take acting classes

  12. Go to art installations

  13. Go to Breakthrough To Success

  14. Join an Amnesty International letter writing group

  15. Take life drawing classes

  16. See live theater

  17. Learn to play music

  18. Start your own business and go business networking

  19. Study Psychology

  20. Take a life coach training course

  21. Get into personal development

  22. Become a life model

  23. Go to rock concerts

  24. Volunteer for the political party with the most attractive male candidate

  25. Hang out with your female friends, and meet their friends

  26. Go to bars

  27. Do a Yoga retreat

  28. Go on a naturist holiday tour

  29. Join Greenpeace and start participating

  30. See live music

  31. Go to the beach with friends

  32. Do a road trip to another state

  33. Join a writer's group

  34. Talk around the water cooler at work

  35. Do volunteer work

  36. Organize your own house party

  37. Do a health retreat

  38. Backpack across Europe, Australia, Asia, Africa or America.

  39. Do volunteer fund-raising

  40. Go to bars & nightclubs

  41. Travel overseas

  42. Go to a random meetup

  43. Join the Wilderness Society

  44. Join a mixed volleyball team

  45. Take up cycling

  46. Online dating

  47. Study Tantra

  48. Ring an old flame

  49. Study music

  50. Visit art galleries and ask women “Which one is your favorite?”

  51. Join Toastmasters and learn public speaking

  52. Learn to ride a motorbike

  53. Join an amateur theater production

  54. Go to Confest

  55. Become a telephone crisis counselor

  56. Visit a church

  57. Send Twitter messages to random strangers

  58. Join a gym

  59. Learn hypnosis

  60. Study counseling

  61. Study art

  62. Join a bushwalking club

  63. Learn to sing

  64. Become a male stripper

  65. Join a choir

  66. Study sacred sexuality

  67. Phone your existing female friends regularly

  68. Ask for shopping advice at the supermarket

  69. Go to Burning Man

  70. Send Facebook friend requests to friends of your friend.

  71. Do a Contiki tour

  72. Do a meditation retreat

  73. Join a book club

  74. Study hypnotherapy

  75. Go to a sound healing

  76. Hang out in cafes

  77. Start your own blog and write about how you feel

  78. Learn to play drums

  79. Go speed dating

  80. Talk to checkout chicks

  81. Take dance lessons

  82. Go to Carnivale

  83. Approach random women in the street

  84. Become a Sannyassin

  85. Go to Fashion parades

  86. Take an alternative spirituality course

  87. Meet your buddy's single female friends

  88. Do a stand up comedy course

  89. Do an assertiveness training course

  90. Take sign language classes

  91. Go to open-mic nights and have a go

  92. Go dancing

  93. Do a Tantric Sex workshop

  94. Become a hippy

  95. Join a Samba band

  96. Go to parties

  97. Do a relationships training course

  98. Get a dog and walk it in the local park

  99. At wedding receptions

  100. Learn to flirt

  101. Study Engineering

Like I said, at least 100 that work. If you have trouble meeting women you probably lack confidence; lucky for you I elaborate on many of these ideas in Confident Man. It'll have you meeting more women than you can poke a stick at.

What about you? What do you like to do to meet women?

Categories: Women

Graham Stoney

Graham Stoney

I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked. I created The Confident Man Program to help other men live the life of their dreams. I also offer 1-on-1 coaching via Skype so if you related to this article contact me about coaching.


Matt · March 11, 2012 at 11:27 am

I hope you don't mind, Graham, but I've emailed this list to a bunch of my friends. I've included a link to your site but this list was too comprehensive and full of ideas NOT to share around! 🙂

    Graham Stoney

    Graham Stoney · March 13, 2012 at 11:45 am

    Sure, I love people sharing links to my content. Cheers, Graham

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