I've been watching David DeAngelo's Sexual Communication program recently, and here's a summary of what I've learned:
There as a deeper level of communication between humans that most men are unaware of. It's the same level that animals communicate on instinctively. It reminds me of what Eckhardt Tolle talks about in The Power Of Now about being totally present, and the Meisner acting technique of intuitive interactions and emotional connections uninhibited by our normal tendency to overanalyse and overthink. David D is onto something.
His four steps of sexual communication are:
#1: Sparking the Attraction
Attraction is unconscious. Women are naturally attracted to the Leader. Develop your masculine traits. Not needing approval. Confidence and lack of insecurity. Dominance and power are the ultimate aphrodisiac. Being unapologetic for who you are and what you want. Make decisions quickly. Not accepting second class behavior or treatment from others. Live in your own reality. Strong eye contact. Be territorial without whining or insecurity.
Women test men unconsciously. Start recognizing these tests and learn to pass the tests without taking them seriously. Forget “be yourself”: your normal persona is an accommodating, manipulative wuss and isn't actually your real self anyway. When a woman tests you with criticism, smile and respond playfully with “I'm glad you like it”.… Continue reading…