flirting

If you’re like me, you weren’t born a “natural” when it comes to flirting with women, and it’s a skill you need to develop. For the longest time, my aim in conversations was to try and get women to like me. And guess what? It doesn’t work. The more we try to get people to like us, the less likely they are to end up doing so. Especially when we’re relating to women. Somehow no matter how much I tried, I was always a hopeless flirt, and could never seem to get the women I was interested in, interested in me.

And then I discovered the secret to flirting. I can’t believe I didn’t notice it before. Once I realised what it was, I noticed that all the “naturals” I knew who got on so well with the women I was interested in were doing it with these women; I just hadn’t realised. It’s so simple, I can sum it up in one word: teasing.

This revelation was like an epiphany for me when it came to relating to women.

Flirting is all about playful teasing

If you want to learn to flirt, you need to learn to tease.… Continue reading…