missing out

Hey dude,

I have some tough questions for you, but I think you’re up to the task.

So let’s be straight with each other: How’s your relationship going?

How’s it really going?

Are you in a relationship with the girl of your dreams? Married? Engaged? Dating?

Are you still single after all these years?

Or worse, have you settled for a relationship with a woman who deep down, you know really isn’t the girl of your dreams simply because you’re afraid of missing out with women?

This is so painful for many guys to face that they settle for what they think they can get in a woman, instead of going after what they really want. And the problem with settling is that deep down, you’ll know that you deserved better. Eventually she’ll sense it too. Either you’ll live out the rest of your life in denial and unhappiness, or you’ll end up breaking up.

It never goes well in the end.

All because you were afraid of missing out on what you really wanted.

But there’s a valuable message in that fear for you: It’s telling you that you’re missing a key ingredient that every man needs in order to be successful with the women of his dreams.

No doubt you’ve heard it before, and it may be painful to acknowledge that what you’re missing can be summed up in one word:

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