Gain Confidence, Assertiveness & Self-Esteem With The Confident Man eBook Program

If you want to be confident, the secret is to repeatedly take action that gradually expands your comfort zone. Over time, your nerves settle and feelings of self-confidence develop. And that's exactly what the program in the Confident Man e-book does.

You'll Love Being a Confident Man

I haven't always felt self-confident, but I made it my mission to conquer my old feelings of inadequacy and nervousness. When you gain confidence, you start to experience these benefits:

• Lots of attention from women
• Women are attracted, instead of you having to chase them
• Greater respect from other people
• More inspiring people in your life
• Better treatment and service
• Higher income
• More and better sex
• Your needs met
• The life you want, on your terms
• A sense of mission, purpose and direction
• To love life
• Goodbye loneliness
• More happiness, joy, peace and contentment
• Ability to express yourself and your feelings authentically
• Your family stop treating you like a child
• Freedom, freedom, freedom
• Leadership opportunities that excite you
• A sense of Personal Power

One thing that often surprises me is the way other people treat me better now. They are friendlier and more respectful, even when I'm just going about my normal business. Other people can sense when we have confidence, and treat us accordingly. The positive effect on your life is all-pervasive.

Is Confidence A Problem For You?

I know what it's like to lack self-confidence, because I've been there myself. It was horrible. When we lack confidence as a man, it shows up all over our lives like a bad rash. We feel:

• Shy
• Nervous
• Withdrawn
• Inferior to other guys
• Beat ourselves up
• Find it hard to make eye contact
• Have difficulty relating to women
• Always have to prove ourselves
• Avoid conflict
• Please other people ahead of ourselves
• Play the “Nice Guy” all the time
• Let other people walk all over us

When we lack confidence, we feel rotten inside. It effects absolutely every area of our lives.

And It Gets Worse

But that's just the tip of the iceberg, because the way we act when we lack confidence affects all our relationships. Other people treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated. The problem just compounds itself and we end up feeling:

• Lonely
• Isolated
• Ashamed
• Rejected
• Anxious
• Afraid of approaching other people
• Scared of interacting with attractive women
• Single or in an unhappy or unsatisfying relationship
• Sexually frustrated
• Unemployed or unhappily employed
• Uncertain about our direction in life
• Underachieving and dropping out or becoming a workaholic and burning out
• Addicted to alcohol, drugs, gambling, work, etc etc
• Depressed and even suicidal

Lack of confidence makes us feel terrible about ourselves. We develop ineffective coping strategies, like avoiding uncomfortable situations, underachieving or becoming so driven to prove ourselves that we burn out. Yeah, I've been there too, and it felt awful. What we need in these situations is a true sense of inner confidence.

Women: The Ultimate Confidence Litmus Test

Women routinely say that the most attractive thing about a man is: confidence, confidence, confidence. That means that if you're a man who lacks confidence, you're hosed. Every move you make and every attempt to engage with attractive, appealing women will fail if you lack the confidence to pull it off.

Of all the areas of my life that were effected by the lack of confidence in my old self, my relationships with women were by far the most painful. Ouch. I feel bad just thinking back and remembering what it was like. The loneliness, the painful rejections, the failures, the cravings. It was horrible. Perhaps it still is for you. Confidence is the only way out.

Otherwise We End Up Settling In Life

When you lack confidence, you often end up settling for what you think you can get, instead of what you really want in life. When you settle, you end up with:

• The job nobody else wanted
• The friends nobody else wanted
• The woman nobody else wanted
• The life nobody else wanted

No wonder so many men end up defeated in life and feeling chronically depressed. We take antidepressants to escape the horrible painful reality that we didn't get what we wanted in life... all because we lacked the confidence to get it. Tragically, many of us even end up committing suicide to escape the pain of it all.

On one of the saddest days of my life, I stood in the kitchen of my two-bedroom unit, still single and lonely at age 40. As I swallowed my antidepressant tablet, I wondered how on earth a smart guy like me had ended up down in such a pit of despair. All because I lacked confidence to really deal with the issues effecting my life. The emotional baggage that robbed me of my confidence even robbed me of my physical health and I ended up with Chronic Fatigue for three years.

Fortunately There Is A Solution

I didn't want to live a life dependent on mind-altering medication, so one day I woke up and decided that there had to be a better way. I took an inventory of everything that upset me about my life, and set out to take massive action to do something about it. That was the day I stopped being a victim and took control of my life.

I tried many different things in the process of building my confidence; some more successful than others. In the process, I reinvented my life as my self-confidence gradually skyrocketed.

When I looked around at many of my single male friends, I realized they were struggling with exactly the same issues I used to struggle with. So I wrote Confident Man to outline everything that I did that worked to transform myself from a scared little boy in a man's body, into a Confident Man:

Want Instant Confidence? Here's the Real Truth

There is no instant answer to developing confidence. People who try to sell you instant confidence with no effort are lying and just preying on your vulnerability because they know how important this is to you. But building true inner confidence is possible and requires dedication and commitment. Having a mentor to guide you helps a lot too. I wasted a lot of time on things that didn't work while I was still figuring out what the problem was and looking for the best solution. With the benefit of hindsight, I streamlined the Confident Man program so you can save yourself a lot of time and frustration compared to what I went through.

Lots of people on the Internet give free advice on building confidence, with dicky time-wasters like looking at yourself in the mirror and saying "I love you!", or chanting affirmations you don't believe. None of that stuff worked for me, so I don't recommend you do it. What I do recommend is the stuff that actually works.

Often we end up taking advice from friends who are no better off than we are. Or we read books by motivational speakers who clearly never struggled with confidence or self-doubt themselves and have no clue what it's like. Make sure that the people you take advice from have actually travelled the road you want to travel, and achieved what you want.

Free advice is often worth exactly what you pay for it. The most valuable advice on becoming a confident man is available right here for just $47:

Don't Just Take My Word For It

Check out what other readers are saying:

"Freaking hilarious... and good advice"

- Dan Smith

"Reading Confident Man is a straightforward and easy to follow series of steps to make yourself more attractive to the ladies - from a visual, emotional and personality point of view. More than that, I found many points in the book to apply to life in general - so that's the icing on the cake!"

- Bradley Tremill

"This book is amazing! I was so absorbed in it that I could not stop reading it. I just had to keep going in order to discover the next step or skill. It's a totally engrossing and witty read. The information contained within its pages was both knowledgeable and insightful. The author has written about a subject that he is familiar with and he has obviously invested a lot of time researching and experiencing these steps and skills. Reading this book has completely altered my outlook on women and subsequently I believe that as a result of this book, my life has been positively influenced. Look out ladies here I come."

- Jeff Robertson

"Graham thank you very much for your book! I read it after a date last night and have resolved to make big changes to my life particularly on the personal front. I know that if I don't I'll still be in the same rut and moaning about my life leading up to my 50th so I have to make changes now, particularly to my self belief and esteem. Thank you so much for giving me something which will transform my life. What you have written is so inspiring!"

- Stan Taskil

"When I read Confident Man, I found it hard to put down! It is fantastic There is so much good stuff in there for both sexes."

- Kristi Simpson

Bonus Products Valued At Over $300 Included Free!

I want to make sure that your newfound confidence applies to all areas of your life, so I'm throwing in the following bonus products absolutely free. No matter where you are at now, I guarantee that you'll find material here that will take your success in life, and especially with women, to the next level:

Bonus #1: Audio Interview with Dr. Russ Harris, author of The Confidence Gap: From Fear to Freedom

Dr. Russ Harris is a bestselling author and expert on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). In this revealing interview, he teaches simple, practical ACT-based techniques for building self-confidence based on his popular workshops and books.

In this interview you will learn:

• Why the popular definition of confidence can lead you astray.
• How to take action that leads to feelings of confidence.
• How to build confidence quickly by stepping outside our comfort zone.
• The key ingredient you need before you will develop confidence.
• Why even many therapists lack confidence.
• The thing we all have in common, that nobody talks about.
• Why the strategies in most self-help books fail.
• How to build lasting confidence in the face of fear and anxiety.
• The most powerful strategy in all psychology that busts phobias.
• How to avoid The Confidence Trap that leaves you stuck with fear and anxiety.
• The core skills for dealing with anxiety-inducing thoughts and feelings.
• How to harness the power of mindfulness to deal with fear.
• How to change your attitude to develop genuine, lasting confidence.
• How to use your personal values to create a sense of meaning and confidence in your life.

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Bonus #2: Audio Interview with Alpha Male Coach James Greenshields on How to Become an Alpha Male

James Greenshields is an Ex-Military Officer who served on the front line in Iraq, and now runs his own business coaching men on How to Become More Successful in civilian life.

He's also a natural Alpha Male, and in this interview he teaches what you can do to develop the Alpha Male traits that boost your confidence and make you naturally attractive to women.

Listen to James comparing the physiological response of approaching a woman you don't know, with the roadside bomb attack he survived while serving in Iraq. You've got to check this out. He's an expert on anxiety, and how to deal with it.

In this interview you'll learn:

• The Alpha-Male traits you want and how to develop them.
• Developing Leadership skills that Women find attractive.
• Overcoming Clinginess that repels women.
• How to build genuine self-worth and self-confidence.
• Neutralising emotional baggage from your past.
• Dealing with Guilt, Shame and the feeling of Not Being Good Enough.
• How to start building a positive track record to build your success with Women.
• Getting comfortable in your own skin around Women.
• Learning Humour and Story-Telling.
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• Building trust to create attraction.
• Finding other Alpha-Males as role models to learn from.

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Bonus #3: Audio Interview with Street Dating Expert Alex Coulson on how to Approach Beautiful Women in the Street, Get Phone Numbers, Email Addresses and Dates.

Alex is one of the world's leading experts on Street Dating and Day Game. He coaches men on approaching women, runs dating workshops and live infield training to help guys improve their conversation and approaching skills.

In this awesome interview he shares his most valuable tips that you'd normally have to pay hundreds of dollars in coaching fees to learn, on:

• Where to start when learning the skill of approaching women and starting conversations.
• How to warm people up, make them laugh and make them like you.
• Having something ready to say, and stick with it.
• Avoiding the need to get everything perfect first-time.
• Overcoming Approach Anxiety by being prepared.
• What to do when things don't seem to be working.
• His favourite opener.
• Why it's so much easier to meet women during the day than in pubs and clubs at night.
• Conversation skills to engage and entertain a woman.
• The value of being direct with women.
• Learn how to be funny.
• The difference between funny and goofy.
• Women don't reject you, they reject your approach. And what to do about it.
• Where and how to practice.

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Bonus #4: Audio Interview with Style, Fashion and Dating Guru Sharon Cullington on Clothing and Style to Dramatically Increase your Confidence and Attractiveness to Women

Sharon has a background in style and fashion, having run her own chain of fashion boutiques. Now she coaches men on how to improve their fashion styling and dating life. This interview covers everything a guy needs to know to revamp his clothing style to become more attractive to women, including:

• What styles to avoid, and what to buy.
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• Where to go, and how to find the stores to shop in.
• How to make the whole process fun.
• How to develop your own a sense of style.
• The importance of shoes, and how to work out what to get.
• How to get the Rock Star look that really attracts women.
• What to do with hair styling.
• Why it's good to be funny and cheeky with women.
• Not to take "No" for an answer too quickly.
• How to learn to deal with rejection.
• Where to go to meet women.

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Bonus #5: Audio Interview with Attraction and Dating Coach Hot Alpha Female, about the Mistakes that so many Guys Make when Approaching or Dating Women.

Hot Alpha Female is a popular Attraction and Dating Coach who advises guys on how to be more successful with women. She's one of the most outgoing and vivacious women I've ever met, and knows intuitively what works with women and what doesn't because she's a woman herself.

She's super-perceptive, and mines her hot girl friends for information on what they really want; not just what they say they want. Then she teaches this to guys to give them an unfair advantage.

In this candid interview she shares her tips on:

• Why awesome, nice guys sometimes don't have a chance with women. And what to do about it.
• How many women are clueless about why they're attracted to certain guys.
• What a guy can do to turn repulsion into attraction.
• The Number #1 Problem with guys that kills attraction: Neediness.
• Why putting a woman on a pedestal and sucking up to her doesn't work.
• The importance of developing an emotional connection with a woman, and how to do it.
• Why the logical approach men usually use doesn't work.
• Avoiding approval-seeking.
• Developing your own natural style for interacting with women.
• Things your mother taught you that don't work.
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Bonus #6: Audio Interview with NLP Trainer and Coach Daniel Smith, on using Neuro Linguistic Programming to Build Confidence.

Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a toolbox of techniques for getting the most out of your mind, and relating powerfully and confidently with other people. Daniel Smith is an NLP trainer and coach, and in this interview he shares the most powerful secrets of NLP for retraining your mind to build self-esteem and self-confidence.

In this revealing interview he shares practical wisdom on:

• The simple most important secret to becoming confident.
• How to achieve excellence instead of mediocrity.
• Modelling what other people do rather than what they say they do.
• How to become confident at anything.
• Becoming confident in relationships with women.
• The importance of asking better questions.
• Dealing with the voice in your head: your inner critic.
• The secret to feeling positive instantly, no matter what your mood.
• How to change your limiting beliefs.
• The key trap most guys fall into that you must avoid.

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• Building Your Self-Confidence.
• Creating Useful Positive Affirmations.
• What You Say and How You Say It.
• Body Language: How to tell if She's Interested.

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So Here's What You Get Again

Here's the deal:

Life Rewards The Man Who Takes Action.

Success in life goes to the man who takes action. In fact, true confidence can only be developed by taking action; even in the face of uncertainty and fear. It's time to start making this work for you rather than against you. You could pass up this opportunity... or you could take action right now to boost your confidence in life.

How will you feel on Saturday night when you're desperate and dateless, trolling Internet dating sites or bars in the vain hope of meeting Ms Right, afraid of going after what you want. What will it cost you in terms of your own happiness if you don't read this book?

You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. I think you'll enjoy the read, and I know you'll enjoy being a Confident Man. Every guy does. So read the book, check out the bonuses, and start having the success with women and life you've always dreamed of.

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Looking forward to hearing how much you love the Confident Man lifestyle,

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