I've been watching Zan Perrion's The Way of the Natural enlightened seduction DVD series, and found it fascinating. He's a guy who clearly and unapologeticly loves women, and I like that his approach to women is based on respectfully giving a woman what she wants and being up-front about it rather than covert and manipulative.

Zan cites the popularity of romance novels as evidence that women are starved of romance, passion and seduction, and sees himself as a romance artist and lover of beauty, rather than a pick-up artist. Seduction is about being a man who naturally attracts and charms women.

Be genuine and honest about your desires, without being presumptuous or needy. Move through life without apology, recognize that women are beautiful, learn to see through their facades and walls and to genuinely love women. Zan believes that so-called “natural” seducers aren't born with this gift; at some point in their life they chose to listen and learn how to relate to women in a naturally powerful way.

Here are Zan's 10 traits of the Natural Seducer:

  1. Sees all women as his own, has compassion for their sadness, and makes it his mission to impart beauty to their lives again.

  2. The secret to his power over women lies in their power over him, and the vulnerability of his desires. He can't help but be delighted by her.

  3. Has a purpose in life that isn't her. He's on an adventure through life.

  4. Realises that honesty is the greatest aphrodisiac. He doesn't mask his desires or manipulate her.

  5. Never kisses and tells. It's not about taking something from her; it's about sharing something with a beautiful woman.

  6. Doesn't get defensive. He knows who he is, and what he's about.

  7. Never takes himself seriously, but has the confidence to make fun of himself.

  8. Understands the importance of body language and eye contact.

  9. Knows that men who are attractive to women aren't necessarily handsome, but have a compelling way of expressing themselves.

  10. His relationships never end.

And that's just the first of four DVDs in The Way of the Natural enlightened seduction DVD series. The others go on to cover Men & Women, Relationships, and Change; which are all really relevant to learning how to be natural with women. Get it now from Zan Perrion's website.

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Graham Stoney

Graham Stoney

I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked. I created The Confident Man Program to help other men live the life of their dreams. I also offer 1-on-1 coaching via Skype so if you related to this article contact me about coaching.