Use Humor That Makes Her Laugh With You, Not At You

Back when I was studying at University, there was a guy in my group of computer nerd friends named Toby, who was constantly cracking really bad jokes. We were relatively lucky to have two girls in our group, and Toby was always trying to hit on the girl he liked with his goofy sense of humor. But it never worked. Not only did his jokes make people groan rather than laugh, they tended to make him look like a clown rather than a comedian. Needless to say, Toby didn't end up getting the girl.

Women always say they love guys with a sense of humor, but there's more to it than just saying things that you think are funny. Your sense of humor also conveys a lot about who you are, and how you see the world. At one end of the spectrum, your humor can convey that you're a cool, interesting guy with great insights on the human condition. At the other, you can end up looking like a clown. One will make women attracted to you, while the other will make them run a mile. It's the difference between having her laugh with you, and having her laugh at you.

If you want to connect with women and have them attracted to you, the humor you want to use should convey that you are a man of high status. Telling jokes tends to convey low status. Making intelligent observations of what's currently going on around you tends to convey high status.

Humor is a skill that can be learned. Comedians don't just get up on stage and have instant success; they learn to apply a series of comedic techniques and skills through observation and practice. So if you don't consider yourself a funny guy, don't worry: you can learn. And if you are already funny, you can develop your sense of humor in a way that conveys high status which creates attraction with women.

The best product I've come across for teaching you how to be funny in a way that is attractive to women is High Status Humor. I've been studying humor, stand-up comedy and Improv lately, and there are a lot of parallels between what I've been learning and this product; so these guys clearly know what they're talking about.

Some of the topics covered in the High Status Humor program include:

  • The importance of Status in attracting women

  • Social Tension

  • Body Language

  • Letting go of the past

  • What makes something funny?
  • The element of surprise and the unexpected
  • Observation and Targets

  • Unlocking your creativity

  • Reversal, Exaggeration and Misinterpretation

  • Reframing

  • Delivery and Intention

  • Playing a character

Plus you get bonus reports including a banter cheat sheet with ready-made comeback lines, how to turn your girlfriend on by text or phone, and how to avoid landing in the dreaded friend zone. I recommend you check out at High Status Humor.

About Graham Stoney

I struggled for years with low self-esteem, anxiety and a lack of self-confidence before finding a solution that really worked. I created The Confident Man Program to help other men live the life of their dreams. I also offer 1-on-1 coaching via Skype so if you related to this article contact me about coaching.
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