Helping Men to Be Confident

Do You Feel Frustrated With Women?

Hey there,

I have a question for you that could change your life:

  • Do you feel frustrated with women?

Or to go deeper:

  • Do you wonder why the girls you like don’t seem to like you?
  • Do you feel hopeless when it comes to finding “the one” for you?
  • Do you find yourself feeling angry with women and not knowing why?
  • Do you get upset when you encounter rejection after rejection from women?
  • Have you given up when it comes to women, dating, sex and relationships?

Ok, that’s enough… I know these can be painful questions. So I want to let you in on a secret that enlightened men have known for centuries which will help you dissolve your frustration with women:

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By Graham Stoney, ago

Are You Afraid Of Missing Out In Life?

Hey dude,

I have some tough questions for you, but I think you’re up to the task.

So let’s be straight with each other: How’s your life going?

How’s it really going?

  • Are you in a relationship with the girl of your dreams? Married? Engaged? Dating?
  • Do you have a kick-ass job that you absolutely love?
  • Is the money flowing your way?
  • Do you have hobbies that you’re passionate about?
  • Are you surrounded by supportive friends who are living the lives of their dreams too?

Or is your life more like this:

  • Are you still single after all these years?
  • Stuck in a dead-end job?
  • Surrounded by losers?
  • Lacking passion for anything?

I know it may be a painful topic but also ask yourself this:

Are you afraid of missing out on what you really want in your life?

This question is so painful for many guys that they settle for what they think they can get in life, instead of going after what they really want. And the problem with settling is that deep down, you’ll know that you deserved better. The people you settle with will sense it too. Either you’ll live out the rest of your life in denial and unhappiness, or you’ll end up having a mid-life crisis or mental breakdown.

It never goes well in the end.

All because you were afraid of missing out.

If you’re afraid of missing out, there’s a valuable message in that fear for you. It’s telling you that you’re missing a key ingredient that every man needs in order to be successful in life:

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By Graham Stoney, ago

Do You Feel Like A Failure With Women?

Hey Dude,

I know this can be a painful question, especially when you’re going through a woman-drought, but we need to ask ourselves tough questions sometimes if we want to be successful:

How do you feel around women?

  • Do you feel like a failure?
  • Not good enough?
  • Inadequate?
  • Afraid?

Perhaps you’ve become jaded and given up.

Well I’m here to tell you that there’s hope; even for a guy like you.

Because I used to be you: feeling like a failure with women. And then I discovered the secret ingredient a man needs in order to be successful with women.

When Sean Connery was asked what it was that made him so successful around women, he said:

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By Graham Stoney, ago
Depressed man lying in bed

Are You Suffering From Depression?

I want to talk about an issue most men don’t talk to other men about.

Most of us are too ashamed to talk about it, let alone seek any help for it.

Yet it affects a staggering number of us guys.

So I’ll cut to the chase: I’m talking about depression.

Maybe you’ve sought help and been diagnosed by a professional, or perhaps you just know deep down that you’re unhappy. Something is wrong with your life but you’re not sure what. Perhaps you feel hopeless for no good reason, or you just can’t get motivated, or the light has simply gone out of your life.

It’s a painful place to be.

Psychiatrists will tell you that depression is a “chemical imbalance in the brain”, and they’re right.

But that’s only half the story. The obvious question to ask is: what causes the chemical imbalance? (more…)

By Graham Stoney, ago

Do You Feel Like A Failure?

Hey there,

I have some tough questions for you:

  • Do you feel like a failure in life?
  • Have you failed to achieve what you wanted to achieve so far?
  • Ever feel like life is passing you by and you don’t know what to do?

I know this can be painful to admit, but if this sounds like you, there’s a key ingredient that you’re missing. Let me spell it out loud and clear:

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By Graham Stoney, ago

Are You Afraid of Missing Out with Women?

Hey dude,

I have some tough questions for you, but I think you’re up to the task.

So let’s be straight with each other: How’s your relationship going?

How’s it really going?

Are you in a relationship with the girl of your dreams? Married? Engaged? Dating?

Are you still single after all these years?

Or worse, have you settled for a relationship with a woman who deep down, you know really isn’t the girl of your dreams simply because you’re afraid of missing out with women?

Don’t Miss Out On Meeting Your Dream Woman

This is so painful for many guys to face that they settle for what they think they can get in a woman, instead of going after what they really want. And the problem with settling is that deep down, you’ll know that you deserved better. Eventually she’ll sense it too. Either you’ll live out the rest of your life in denial and unhappiness, or you’ll end up breaking up.

It never goes well in the end.

All because you were afraid of missing out on what you really wanted.

But there’s a valuable message in that fear for you: It’s telling you that you’re missing a key ingredient that every man needs in order to be successful with the women of his dreams.

No doubt you’ve heard it before, and it may be painful to acknowledge that what you’re missing can be summed up in one word:

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By Graham Stoney, ago

Are You Afraid Of Talking To Beautiful Women?

I’ve read a lot of books on talking to women, and most of them never even mention the core problem a lot of men I know face when it comes to talking to beautiful women.

This problem may arise as [intlink id=”599″ type=”post”]approach anxiety[/intlink], not knowing what to say, feeling like you’re never good enough, putting women an a pedestal, trying to get beautiful women to like you, or just plain being overwhelmed with fear around hot women.

And it all comes down to feeling powerless around them.

If you feel powerless around the women you’re attracted to, it’s probably due to something you learned early on in life and are still hanging onto because subconsciously you believe that your very survival is at stake.

The question to ask yourself if you suffer from this is:

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By Graham Stoney, ago

The Secrets To Getting What You Want In Life

Have you ever found yourself getting angry with someone, and wondering why? Chances are they were stopping you in some way from getting your needs met. For instance, I was recently at a Shamanic Journeying and Soul Healing workshop, where I found myself getting increasingly angry with an obese woman who was dominating the workshop with her stories of past lives, astral traveling and other new-age nonsense. We ended up in a conflict which ultimately led to me getting what I wanted, and reminded me of some of the secrets to getting what you want in life.

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By Graham Stoney, ago

The Single Biggest Mistake Of My Life

I was telling a female friend of mine recently about a realisation I’d come to regarding the single biggest mistake of my life. The one that had caused me more pain and grief than anything else.

The biggest mistake I ever made was taking on a false belief. An idea, the consequences of which were enormous. It fundamentally changed how I behaved around other people, leading me to suppress and alter my whole concept of who I was. This one belief and it’s consequences led me to end up hating myself and thinking there was something wrong with me.

It’s an idea that I took on so early in my childhood that I can’t even remember when I decided to believe in it. Although I borrowed this idea from the people closest to me while growing up, it was still my choice to adopt it in my own life; something I now regret.

So what was the faulty idea behind the biggest mistake of my life?

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By Graham Stoney, ago